Weddings



Until the 1900s few brides bought a special wedding dress and instead would
wear their best outfit. Green was always avoided, as it was thought to be unlucky!

White symbolised purity and was thought to ward off evil spirits, which made it
a favourite for brides. White wedding dresses were made popular by Queen Victoria,
who broke the tradition of royals marrying in silver.

The best known traditions regarding the wedding dress are that the bride
should never make her own dress and that the groom should not see the bride in
her wedding dress before she arrives at the ceremony - both of which are
considered to be unlucky. It is also believed that the bride should not try on
her entire outfit before the wedding day and that she should leave a
final stitch on the dress undone until it is time to leave for the wedding
ceremony. This was because it was felt dangerous for the bride to 'count
her chickens'. For the same reason, wedding linen was marked with the
bride's maiden initials rather than her married initials.



The Veil
Although the wedding veil became popular in Britain in the 1800s its origin is
unclear. It is thought that it predates the wedding dress by centuries, probably
going back to Roman times when it was believed that brides were particularly
vulnerable to evil spirits. Therefore, it was thought that by wearing a
veil the bride could conceal her identity and protect herself from these
evil spirits until she was safely wed.

Other explanations are either that the veil is a relic of the
days when a groom would throw a blanket over the head of the
woman of his choice when he captured her and carted her off
or that, during the times of arranged marriages, the bride's face was covered
until the groom was committed to her at the ceremony - so it
would be too late for him to run off if he didn't like the look of her!

These origins have all evolved into the tradition that the veil covers the bride's
face throughout the ceremony until the minister pronounces the couple man and
wife - although today, the veil is often lifted by the bride's father
when the bride arrives at the altar.




Married in white, you have chosen right
Married in blue, your love will always be true
Married in pearl, you will live in a whirl
Married in brown, you will live in town
Married in red, you will wish yourself dead
Married in yellow, ashamed of your fellow
Married in green, ashamed to be seen
Married in pink, your spirit will sink
Married in grey, you will go far away
Married in black, you will wish yourself back





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